I made thread on here about my clingy GF a while back, for those who didnt get to see it i'll summarize it up: I have a GF, shes really clingy. I've been trying to back away out of the relationship but thats only making her more clingy. She did somthing for me and I told her I loved her, the next day I came to my senses. Seems the only reason im sticking around is because of the things she'll do for me, I dont belive theres any love in this relationship. Ok so I was going to do it, I was finaly going to tell her how I felt, mabey she sensed it coming, mabey she didnt, all I know is she did something else for me that I asnt going to give up at the moment. I've only dug my hole deeper now and I dont know how to get out.More backround on the relationship: We were friends and I was the one that said the innital ''we should date''. I could sense how cold she was to the situation in the beginning probly because she ddint think I was what she wanted. I sensed that and it upset me but now I cant stop thinking about it. I guess what im asking is, how do I do this? How does a teenager with raging hormones give up a girl that will do anything for him? How can I end this? Im seriously stressing out about this and I dont want to be.Urg, its happening agian..
You just have to be honest with yourself and with her. Tell her that you think that you two should just remain friends because you don't really feel a connection anymore, if ever. I normally wouldn't suggest this because I don't really get into the whole idea of it, but if you're comfortable, you could suggest a 'friends with benefits' sort of thing, I guess?Urg, its happening agian..
wow. well it may come off really mean. but have you ever said anything to her about some space? sometimes maybe that can fix a realationship and you guys can stay together. and maybe if you say that she will come out with her feelings or maybe she will apritiate that you came out ant told her whats bothering you and she will give you your space that you want. but other than that i really dont know how else to help you. i guess try that and see where that goes. talk about how ya feel man. really the only way. its a toughy but sometimes its the only way
maybelline
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