Can you love two people?

Can you love two people at the same time? And is that wrong? How come cheating in relationships is such a big deal? What if you do love two people at the same time, I mean you develop many relationships in your life, you're bound to come across two different women whom you have feelings for.This is why 60% of marriages fail, is because people deny their own instincts. thoughts?Can you love two people?
you can love many people. love is an attraction that builds up and is maintained by being together.Can you love two people?
I guess some people arent like that, and they will feel jealous
You have to decide whether its emotional love or physical love first of all. Right now I'm emotionally attached to two people. I physically love a third person because she is a naughty girl. While confusing I realize that the first two people are good for a relationship while the third is only good for sex.
[QUOTE=''runker'']Can you love two people at the same time? And is that wrong? How come cheating in relationships is such a big deal? What if you do love two people at the same time, I mean you develop many relationships in your life, you're bound to come across two different women whom you have feelings for.

This is why 60% of marriages fail, is because people deny their own instincts.

thoughts?[/QUOTE]yes you can its quite easy actually
It depends on who you are and how you are programmed both biologically and mentally.

I personally am very monogamous by nature and when am in love with a woman, I can hardly think about anything but her... I don't even have time to consider qualities other women might have to offer me let alone be capable of finding them attractive.
[QUOTE=''foxhound_fox'']It depends on who you are and how you are programmed both biologically and mentally.

I personally am very monogamous by nature and when am in love with a woman, I can hardly think about anything but her... I don't even have time to consider qualities other women might have to offer me let alone be capable of finding them attractive.[/QUOTE]
I feel the same way when I'm in a relationship, before hand is horrible for me though. I was going to be set up with a girl through my one friend and I was all giddy and blah blah but in the end I ended up wanting to be with my friend.
I love... Lamp.
Can you love more than one person? Yes. I don't think a father (Or anyone in the family) would just love one of their son's, and then screw the rest of the family.
[QUOTE=''Tiefster''] Right now I'm emotionally attached to two people. I physically love a third person because she is a naughty girl. [/QUOTE]Atta boy.
[QUOTE=''runker'']How come cheating in relationships is such a big deal?[/QUOTE]



Because it's a betrayal. It shows to the person who's been cheated on that the person they love doesn't love them enough to make a commitment to them.
You can love and make love to n to the power of x people, but that doesn't mean they will love you back, at least not in the long term. Humans are a jealous species by nature which is why the number 1 is the one that usually prevails.
[QUOTE=''Cherokee_Jack''][QUOTE=''runker'']How come cheating in relationships is such a big deal?[/QUOTE] Because it's a betrayal. It shows to the person who's been cheated on that the person they love doesn't love them enough to make a commitment to them. [/QUOTE]



There is no such thing as cheating. Human beings are NOT monogomous by nature. The idea of ''cheating'' is something that was made up to make people feel guilty about being human, and to exercise control over one another... kinda like religion. Ha...
[QUOTE=''Fire_Spirit''][QUOTE=''Cherokee_Jack''][QUOTE=''runker'']How come cheating in relationships is such a big deal?[/QUOTE] Because it's a betrayal. It shows to the person who's been cheated on that the person they love doesn't love them enough to make a commitment to them. [/QUOTE]



There is no such thing as cheating. Human beings are NOT monogomous by nature. The idea of ''cheating'' is something that was made up to make people feel guilty about being human, and to exercise control over one another... kinda like religion. Ha...[/QUOTE]



That is your opinion. It doesn't apply to all people.
Can you? Yes. May you? You'd have to ask for consent.

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