i hate my life.....help?

i can't remember the last time i was ''truely'' happy....i'm sad over trivial things, but i can't help it....for one, i had a crush on this girl for 5 years...and have never really talked to her...i got lucky when i was grouped with her for a history project. i don't find myself very attractive...and in my opinion this girl is the prettiest girl i've ever seen....another thing...my college life just sucks...i already feel bad that my mom is paying a grand a semester...and i just feel like crap. i'm suppose to be in my mandarin chinese class right now, but i just ****ing gave up. i was fed up having to learn 20 characters a week. two weeks ago i actually put in effort into studying for a quiz and only god 17.5/30....that really broke my spirit, and i just didn't give a **** anymore...it doesn't help that my brother is a lot better than i am....i mean...he's only 16 and he's doing stuff like calculus, physics, and studying french, spanish, and italian.....it really hurts me when we're having dinner with other people, and they're asking me and my bro what we're going to do, and my bro is like, oh maybe a chemist or a physicist, and i'm like, i have no clue...it makes me feel like such a dumbassi just, have trouble setting goals you know? two days ago, i promised myself i would study some chinese, then i'm like screw it, leave it till monday....then same thing happened again yestarday, i don't know what to do...i hate my life.....help?
[QUOTE=''lonewolf604'']for one, i had a crush on this girl for 5 years...and have never really talked to her...[/QUOTE] Stop being a sad pansy and put your mac down. This isn't going to fall into your lap. Don't feel sorry for yourself, just make things better. Life's supposed to be hard!i hate my life.....help?
Maybe you should focus on something you like, you know? :)

Killing your brother could work fine too.
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[QUOTE=''Xxgood-timesXx'']k cool, i dont care.   [/QUOTE]

Ouch cold.
[QUOTE=''jachichorro''][QUOTE=''Xxgood-timesXx'']k cool, i dont care.   [/QUOTE]

Ouch cold.[/QUOTE]



I figure, if you are going to bring a problem to the attention of someone else, the VERY least you can do is SUGGEST a solution.



Everyone here is depressed about one thing or another.
Nobody is going to do it but yourself, you just have to find something you are good at and enjoy and go in that direction. Trying to please others is usually a thankless and impossible task. Just do what makes you happy, it's your life. Good like finding your way through this crappy thing we call life. :)
[QUOTE=''Xxgood-timesXx'']k cool, i dont care.   [/QUOTE]



If you didn't care, then why would you post.
Well heres a suggestion, two actually:Be more focused on college. You said your mom was paying a grand a semester. Don't let that 1000 go to waste. Tell the world that your not a piece of $#15, your a man whos gonna get a well paid job. Show you family that you ''can'' surpass your brother.And second would be: The girl, just spend more time with her. get to know her a little bit, and maybe start a life together.
[QUOTE=''Boba_Fett_3710''][QUOTE=''lonewolf604'']for one, i had a crush on this girl for 5 years...and have never really talked to her...[/QUOTE] Stop being a sad pansy and put your mac down. This isn't going to fall into your lap. Don't feel sorry for yourself, just make things better. Life's supposed to be hard![/QUOTE]^ ThisAs for school advice: Try harder or drop the class... :?When making a schedule of classes take things that interest you, don't just take courses cause someone else told you too. College is about freedom. Your open to a lot of different things and you need to choose what you want to go after.
[QUOTE=''Boba_Fett_3710''][QUOTE=''lonewolf604'']for one, i had a crush on this girl for 5 years...and have never really talked to her...[/QUOTE] Stop being a sad pansy and put your mac down. This isn't going to fall into your lap. Don't feel sorry for yourself, just make things better. Life's supposed to be hard![/QUOTE]

I agree... and make things happen that will make you happy. Go see a therapist, hit the gym, get in shape, etc... the more you work on yourself, the easier it gets later on and things will start to fall in place.
[QUOTE=''double_decker'']Nobody is going to do it but yourself, you just have to find something you are good at and enjoy and go in that direction. Trying to please others is usually a thankless and impossible task. Just do what makes you happy, it's your life. Good like finding your way through this crappy thing we call life. :)[/QUOTE]well...i do play music, piano, guitar, and bass...they are often my medium for relieving pain
Firstly, stop comapring yourself with your bro - I mean if you're always gonna beat yourself up over someone being 'better' that you, then you're a bit pooped. **** him and what he can achieve, focus on what you want and what you can achieve within your abilities.  Also with that girl, think about it sensibly. Can you really expect to progress with her on any front if you don't do any leg-work? take the intiative and talk to her!
[QUOTE=''DJCUEBALL''][QUOTE=''Boba_Fett_3710''][QUOTE=''lonewolf604'']for one, i had a crush on this girl for 5 years...and have never really talked to her...[/QUOTE] Stop being a sad pansy and put your mac down. This isn't going to fall into your lap. Don't feel sorry for yourself, just make things better. Life's supposed to be hard![/QUOTE]

I agree... and make things happen that will make you happy. Go see a therapist, hit the gym, get in shape, etc... the more you work on yourself, the easier it gets later on and things will start to fall in place.[/QUOTE]



I have always seen life as a game. In order to win in this game you have to level up and make your character stronger so you can compete with this tough world.
Dude just do whatever you like whenever you like without caring too much about other people. And the thing about your brother, if you keep saying that to yourself you wont achieve anything other than total misery. And be a man.
[QUOTE=''hellraiser_07'']Dude just do whatever you like whenever you like without caring too much about other people. And the thing about your brother, if you keep saying that to yourself you wont achieve anything other than total misery. And be a man.[/QUOTE]



This is good advice. Stop hanging lip and start kicking ass, it's never too late to shine.
[QUOTE=''Boba_Fett_3710''][QUOTE=''lonewolf604'']for one, i had a crush on this girl for 5 years...and have never really talked to her...[/QUOTE] Stop being a sad pansy and put your mac down. This isn't going to fall into your lap. Don't feel sorry for yourself, just make things better. Life's supposed to be hard![/QUOTE] i love every time you step into a thread that requires girl advice... you tend to kick ass
[QUOTE=''Scarker''][QUOTE=''Xxgood-timesXx'']k cool, i dont care.  [/QUOTE] If you didn't care, then why would you post.[/QUOTE] To be mean or to get another post count.
You're unhappy because you live in a state of high emotional rationalization. This means everything you see, do, or understand are determined by how you feel at any giving moment. This is an inefficient way to live. You're waisting energy on things you have no influence over. You need to direct your energy positively toward how you want others to see you. And as a result this will happen. One user suggests that life is suppose to be hard, but this is wrong. Life is suppose to be easy. The flow of energy always takes the path of least resistance and gets the best results because of it. . The hardships in life only come from emotional states of mind, which is in fact a state of weakness. Hardships are for people who have no understanding.